Ah, Valentine’s Day. Some love it. Some love to hate it. For this girl, it’s really just an excuse to enjoy a decadent dessert, paired with a glass or two of wine.
Well, let’s be real. Leniency is the name of the game when it comes to excuses for booze and chocolate. (Isn’t that right, roommates?)
This year, Valentine’s Day coincided with the first day of Losar, the Tibetan New Year. Losar is near and dear to my heart for a number of reasons. In the spring of 2004, I spent five months studying in northern India as a student of Emory University’s Tibetan Studies in Dharamsala program. Living with Tibetan roommates, volunteering with local non-profits, and learning from esteemed professors, Geshes, Rinpoches, and community leaders, this program offered an incredible immersion into a Tibetan exile community–one that welcomed us with unparalleled warmth and generosity, sharing their history, culture, and hope for the future. These five months were truly life-changing and laid a foundation for continued travel and study in South Asia.
I celebrated my first Losar during that initial visit to India and won’t soon forget it–thanks in part to Lhakpa la’s musical skills as host and Pasang la’s liberal hand with the whiskey (FYI: Green Label and orange Fanta? Bad news.).
And so, with my thoughts on dear friends from all around the world, I figured it’d only be right to usher in the Year of the Iron Tiger with a little something special. Lucky for me, I had recently stumbled across a recipe worthy of the occasion–molten chocolate cakes, as seen on Mark Bittman’s NY Times food blog.
Oh, man. These are good. REALLY GOOD. The first bite, when you break into the cake with your fork and all that melted chocolate oozes out? Fan-tastic.
Best of all, they are ridiculously easy to make and only take about 7 minutes in the oven. You can even whip up the batter ahead of time and refrigerate until you’re ready to enjoy them. It has been an all-day effort to restrain myself from making another batch!
But desserts aside, the truth is that there’s more to Valentine’s Day than chocolates or flowers. This time of year is also an opportunity to bring attention to the work of a kick-ass international movement. Founded by Eve Ensler (of Vagina Monologues fame), V-Day works to raise global awareness about violence against women and girls. Each year, V-Day’s Spotlight Campaign highlights a particular group of women who have been targets of violence; in addition to putting an international media spotlight on these areas, V-Day will donate funds to support the work of other anti-violence groups. V-Day’s 2010 Spotlight Campaign is dedicated to the women and girls of the Democratic Republic of Congo. To learn more, get involved, or make a donation, please visit this site. Information on local V-Day events can also be found here. (If you haven’t attended a V-Day event yet, do so. You’re missing out!)
Happy V-Day! And Losar Tashi Delek!





